Social media has taken motherhood rivalry to the next level and we're all to blame. I post photos like this and it looks like we have a perfectly perfect breakfast out with our son. It looks like we had a lovely morning, eating at our fave cafe and nothing in the world can bother us. What you don't see is the fact he didn't even eat most of it. What you don't see is the tantrum he threw when we said he couldn't get a bubble drink at 9:30 am. What you don't see is two tired parents too lazy to cook breakfast on Saturday. What you'll never see is two broke parents with -$ in the bank and a tiny shred of sanity left. You see the fun bits, the parts that make us look like insta-parents that you should be jealous of. Those insta-mums who have the best prams, the teething necklaces you don't ever wear, the yoga pants that cost $74.99 and always have a cafe coffee in their manicured hand. Put your hand up if you have ever looked at someones facebook or instagram and thought to yourself "Oh, I wish I had that" or "I wish I could do that". I know I have, I do it all the time. I'm a serial stalker of people that I've made out (in my mind) to be "better mothers" than me. Its just not real and comparison is the thief of joy! If we all took snapshots of the best bits of our lives, it would look amazing from the outside. Thats what social media does for me. It makes me look glamorous. Facebook makes my life look exciting. It gives people the fake version of me. I'm actually weird and not many people like the real Sarah. Think about what your life looks like from the outside? What kind of person are you? Authentic or just another social media pretender? If I posted what my life was actually like day-to-day you'd be bored to tears. Actually.. most of this blog contains what I do and someone seems to read it lol. Take down your expectations of what motherhood is and you won't be shocked when you become one. We're all real people and our shit stinks too.
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Bianca
23/5/2016 12:30:31 pm
Keepin it real since forever . When I post something real everyone starts getting up in arms about my shit. Its so insane!
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Sarah
23/5/2016 12:35:50 pm
I know lol, its hilarious how people can get so touchy! IGNORE and DELETE xxxx
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